Finding Balance and Joy
Fun and interesting tidbits that caught my attention... My reflections and random thoughts on finding balance and joy, as well as life, universe, and everything in between
Monday, January 26, 2026
Monday, January 19, 2026
Thought of the week – The moment in front of you right now is a good one. Make the most of it!
“Whatever age you are today,
your future self would love to be it.
Most people do not consider 65
to be a young age, but when you're 75 you'd love to rewind to 65 and regain
those years. Few people would describe 35 as your youth, but in your mid-50s
your mid-30s will seem like the ‘young you.’
Today is a great opportunity,
no matter your age. Looking back in a few years, today will seem like the time
when you were young and full of potential or the moment when you could have
started early or the turning point when you made a choice that benefited your
future.
The moment in front of you
right now is a good one. Make the most of it.”
Monday, January 12, 2026
Understanding Your Time Management Style
Greetings all!
Do you know your time management style? Are you Calm and Confident? Or Frantic and Confused?
According to author Kevin Kruse, you need to be clear on your Priorities (WHAT you should be doing) and Planning (HOW you can effectively get it done). He identifies these 4 styles:
1) Frantic & Confused – this indicates ineffectiveness in both Priorities and Planning. You are uncertain as to what you should be working on and don’t have a system for getting things done.
2) Spinning Your Wheels – this quadrant suggests that you have at least above average skills in organization, but are unclear as to which items deserve your attention the most.
3) Distracted & Frustrated – while you are somewhat clear on what you need to accomplish, progress is slow and you are frequently working off-task.
If you are curious, below are some questions to ponder. You can also take the test HERE.
- Each day I can feel time slipping away.
- I have clearly defined goals and I review them frequently.
- Each day, I know what my most important task is.
- I say "no" to requests for my time if it doesn't support my goals.
- I think about whether my tasks can be delegated or outsourced.
- I try to batch similar tasks together on my calendar.
- I work from my calendar more than my to-do list.
- I quit working at a consistent time, whether there is more to do or not.
- I don’t respond to calls, emails, text messages or social media when I’m working on a task.
- I’m mindful of when I have the most energy and ability to concentrate.
- I carry and use a notebook daily (paper or digital).
- I don't procrastinate.
What did you think? Drop me a line!
Source: https://kevinkruse.com/time/
Monday, January 5, 2026
Happiness Calendar: January-2026
Greetings all!
This January, focus on what matters to you!
If I had to choose only one thing to focus on, it would be to look for one small thing to appreciate each day (the idea from January 14). What about you?
January
1 – Make a resolution that feels inspiring.
January
2 – Pause to connect with a stranger.
January
3 – Admit when you’re not sure of something.
January
4 – Appreciate the hardships you’ve avoided.
January
5 – Forgive yourself.
January
6 – Get out into nature.
January
7 – Are you prone to awe? Take the quiz (link below).
January
8 – Spend time with your loved ones.
January
9 – Try to let go of a grudge.
January 10 – Be playful.
January
11 – Talk to yourself the way a loving friend would.
January
12 – Acknowledge your mistakes.
January
13 – Read our best articles of 2025 (link below).
January
14 – Look for one small thing to appreciate.
January
15 – Notice how emotions show up in your body.
January
16 – Break a big goal down into smaller steps.
January
17 – Be an active, engaged listener.
January
18 – Take our Science of Happiness course (link below).
January
19 – Stand up for what’s right.
January
20 – Lend a hand.
January
21 – Cultivate small moments of love and care with others.
January 22 – Listen to our top podcast episodes of 2025 (link below).
January
23 – Remember your ancestors.
January
24 – Reflect on what matters to you.
January
25 – Say thank you.
January
26 – Think about the impact you want to have on others.
January
27 – Tune in to your sense of touch.
January
28 – Read a good book.
January
29 – Follow your conscience.
January
30 – Practice critical thinking.
January
31 – Plant a seed for a better future.
Drop me a line and have a great week!
Sources:
- https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/
- https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/images/uploads/GGSC_Happiness_Calendar_Jan_2026.pdf
- https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/quizzes/take_quiz/awe
- https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/the_best_greater_good_articles_of_2025
- https://ggsc.berkeley.edu/what_we_do/online_courses_tools/the_science_of_happiness
- https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/the_top_science_of_happiness_podcast_episodes_of_2025
- Image: https://deepai.org/
Monday, December 29, 2025
Choosing Your Word for 2026
Greetings all!
How do you want to feel in the next year? Have you picked your word for 2026?
It might have already revealed itself to you
or it might simply “feel right.” Sometimes your word arrives as a quiet
knowing, a sense of “yes, this is it,” even if you cannot explain why. But if
you are still unsure, try this:
First, take a moment to reflect, reconnect with your intentions, and start awakening your energy. You do not need to know what 2026 will look like or how things will come together. All you need is a sense of how you want to feel in the year ahead.
1. When
you imagine yourself at the end of 2026, what do you hope feels different
inside you?
2. Why
does this feeling matter to you right now?
3. Imagine
that you do feel this way in your everyday life. What does that look like? For
example:
a. How
do you begin your mornings?
b. How
do you spend your time?
c. What small choices or rituals help you stay connected to this frequency?
Next, think about what word captures the essence of the feeling you want to live in. This word becomes an anchor for the year ahead, a gentle reminder of who are becoming and what you are welcoming into your life.
So what feeling do you want to grow into in 2026? Happy New Year!
Sources:
- https://hhemarketing.com/author/baron-reid_cbr/events/2026/anwtvb/pdfs/A-New-Way-to-Vision-Board-2026.pdf (slightly modified
by me)
- It was a lot of fun generating the image at https://deepai.org/
Monday, December 22, 2025
It’s Always Okay to Say No
Greetings all!
How is your mental battery this holiday season? Are you feeling festive? Excited? Or overcommitted, drained, and burnt out? Remember you can always say NO!
I love this CALM message: “It’s not your job to make it perfect over the holidays. You’re not Santa Claus.”
Here are playful and lighthearted ways to say no:
- “My heart says yes, but my body says no.”
- “I want to say yes but my mental health says no.”
- “I’m spoken for that night, but let’s catch up soon!”
- “I can’t make it this time but I look forward to seeing you after the holidays”
- “I’m sorry I can’t make it, but I hope you have a wonderful time!”
- “Sorry — I already have plans” (self-care is a valid plan, by the way)
-> Remember: You don’t have to be the life and soul of the party. You are not even expected to be *at* the party.
-> Reflect: When have you said 'yes' recently when you wanted to say 'no'? What is something you want to say 'no' to but do not feel like you can? Say 'no' to that thing this week.
-> Reframe: I’m obligated to go → I can decide how I spend my time.
Honor how you are feeling and prioritize self-care and your own needs. Have a great week!
Monday, December 15, 2025
Christmas Tree Spritz
Greetings all!
Just look how festive and wintery this 3-ingredient cocktail looks – herbal, bubbly, easy, and fun!
Ingredients:
- 1 tablespoon granulated sugar (optional)
- Ice
- 3 ounces chilled sparkling wine, such as Prosecco or Cava
- 2 ounces green Chartreuse (or substitute with St. Germain Elderflower Liqueur)
- 1 ounce chilled club soda or seltzer water, plus more as needed
- 1 fresh rosemary sprig, dusted with powdered sugar if desired (optional)
- Fresh or frozen cranberries, for garnish (optional)
Instructions:
- Rim the glass: Wet the rim of a
wine glass with a damp paper towel, and invert the glass into a shallow dish of
granulated sugar, turning to coat.
- Add the ingredients: Fill the glass halfway with ice, then add sparkling wine, green Chartreuse, and club soda. Stir gently to combine and garnish with rosemary and cranberries.
Bon Appetit! Let me know how you like it!