Greetings
all!
Office stress is unfortunately a part of life for many of us but there are ways to alleviate it!
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A friend recommended a great
article that suggests 3 strategies to keep work stress in check:
- Stop being vague
Vague
messages along the lines “We need to talk. Let me know when you are available”
create unnecessary stress. Did I mess up? Am I in trouble?
People
might leave vague messages because they are in a rush or as a power play. I
agree with Dorie, “Either way, it inflicts an inexcusable psychic
toll. If you want to be a better colleague, stop doing it.”
- Triage your responses [My note – PRIORITIZE!]
We
are bombarded by messages and many of them are non-urgent. However, if you do
not respond timely to a specific, time-sensitive inquiry (“Can you come to the
meeting Friday at 4pm?”), you are being obstructionist.
I love the author’s suggestion to “spend at least 15 minutes a day tagging the most important, time-sensitive messages that have come in, so that you can respond appropriately.”
I love the author’s suggestion to “spend at least 15 minutes a day tagging the most important, time-sensitive messages that have come in, so that you can respond appropriately.”
- Stop watching the kettle boil
Dorie
says it well, “…It’s just as bad to monitor them [your colleagues] relentlessly.”
Her
advice is, “Monitor your own tendencies, instead [MY NOTE - good advice in all aspects of our lives!]. Recognize that responsible
professionals thrive when they’re given autonomy, and work with them to
establish a timeline and agreed-upon metrics of progress. That way, you can
check in at appropriate intervals and they won’t feel blindsided. That takes
the pressure off and allows them to do their best work.”
SUMMARY: “By limiting vague messages, responding to
specific requests in a timely fashion, and giving your colleagues a bit more
leeway, you can do your part to stop the contagion of workplace stress —
because we each already have enough of our own.”
You
can read the full article here:
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did you think? Drop me a line!
И я снова агитирую вас за спортивный образ жизни!Преимуществ слишком много!Одно из них -управление гневом.Спорт учит контролировать энергию, расходовать ее правильно и координирует не только тело,но и эмоции.
ReplyDeleteДофамин и эндорфины, получаемые на тренировках, делают вас устойчивыми к вызовам.С хорошей физической формой приходит расслабленность и уверенность в себе!
Спорт - это не только ключ к физическому здоровью,но и залог душевного спокойствия и стрессоустойчивости.
Thanks so much for reading and for your thoughtful comment! I agree with you - working out definitely helps control anger, among many other advantages! I love your last statement that being active is not only the key to physical health but also to peace of mind and resilience to stress! I find that taking a 15-minute walk during a work day does wonders!
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